One of the first steps in wedding planning is creating your guest list – an exciting but sometimes tricky task! Your guest list influences your budget, helps determine your venue, and guides many other decisions along the way. Once your list is set, managing RSVPs effectively ensures everything runs smoothly as your big day approaches. Here’s a guide to help you navigate both with ease!
Before diving into the names, take a moment to revisit your wedding vision. Are you imagining an intimate gathering with just close family and friends, or a large celebration with a bigger guest list? The size of your guest list plays a crucial role in shaping your wedding day. It also helps determine whether you need a cozy, intimate venue or a larger space to accommodate everyone comfortably, ensuring the atmosphere matches the experience you want to create.
For more guidance on clarifying your wedding style and vision, check out this article. Having a clear idea of what you want in mind will make it easier to decide which guests make the final cut.
A great strategy for building your guest list is to divide it into categories. Start with these groups:
This method ensures you don’t accidentally leave anyone important out and helps you visualise the overall size of the list.
It’s easy to feel pressure to invite everyone, but staying within your budget and venue’s capacity is essential. Review your budget early in the process (our article on setting a wedding budget can help) and use it as a guide when finalising your list. If you need to make cuts, consider inviting only people you have a meaningful connection with or limiting plus-ones to those in long-term relationships.
If your venue or budget limits your guest count, consider creating an “A” list and a “B” list. Send out invitations to your “A” list first, and as you receive declines, you can send additional invites to your “B” list. Just be mindful of your RSVP deadlines, so you have enough time to manage responses.
Once your invitations are sent, it’s time to manage RSVPs. Here are some strategies to help:
It’s common for some guests to miss the RSVP deadline, so don’t hesitate to follow up with a friendly reminder. A quick phone call or message can do the trick and help you finalise your numbers without stress.
Keep all your RSVP responses organised in one place—a spreadsheet, wedding planning app, or your wedding website’s RSVP tracker. Include columns for guest names, attendance, dietary preferences, and any special notes (like transportation or seating needs). Staying organised will save you from last-minute headaches and make finalising your guest list a breeze.
Creating a guest list and managing RSVPs can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone! As a wedding planner, I can help you every step of the way, whether that’s building a personalised guest list strategy or offering on-the-day coordination to make sure everything goes smoothly.
If you would like to chat about how I can help, reach out today!